Friday, June 24, 2011

Retail therapy: I Stress therefore I shop...

"single black female addicted to retail..." 

                                                       -yeah that kind of sums it up
               

I posed this question to the Luvin' My Curves Facebook Page  not too long ago; 

 "Do you consider yourself a stress shopper?"


For awhile I've been trying to figure out how exactly do I handle stress - and I think over time it's changed. I was never one to eat when stressed, I would usually sleep it off. But recently multiple stressors have driven me close to insane and looking at my card statement it hasn't just been for groceries. My justification; " I work hard, I deserve to treat myself" - I don't know how long that excuse will last but I will ride it out as long as I can.

You won't catch me buying anything extravagant - nothing overly expensive... I still use coupons but there is something about stress that leads me to shop.

What's the cure? 

Well, I could try to find another way to channel my stress - I've tried that, the idea of  an extra workout to distract me from shopping doesn't do it for me, sorry. I have tried to grab my journal and write it out, but that doesn't give me the same satisfaction. Do you have any suggestions?

My most recent scores:

Lynn Strappy Sandal, $28.40 Avenue

Michael Antonio Garner $69, Zappos
The shoes are cute, but if I can pinpoint the reason I bought it, is it really worth it?


How do deal with stress shopping? Do you window shop, think before you buy,  or go overboard?

~Luvin' My Curves

4 comments:

lalaG said...

those sandles from the Avenue... i wanted the copper ones, but my store only had the black... i must get the copper ones!

Thomas said...

Boy do you sound like my wife only I think its stress, happiness, sickness and all the above that causes her to shop.

I drives me nuts to see her pick up a pair of heels and then what seems to be the exact same shoe but oh wait one thing is different.

Nice site!

Lesa said...

Retail therapy...ohhhh yeah. And I don't wait, I don't buy anything expensive, and I'm not specific to clothes, could be books,cheap jewelry.

HOWEVER... I also have the eating therapy and the sleeping therapy,
so there is my day, eating, sleeping and spending money...

scarf tying said...

I so agree with the post! I also go on retail therapy whenever i get sad.

--scarf tying expert

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