So I made it 90 days without shopping for a darn thing. I'm proud of myself; because there were times when I really felt like I needed to shop. Last week on Day 90 I rejoiced a bit on Twitter and the main question I got back was "So when's the shopping spree?" - and to be honest I have no clue. I learned some things along the way and I'd like to share them with you:
1. I need a new hobby.
With no shopping,I found myself incredibly bored. Is this all I do? I questioned myself plenty of times as to how I exactly spent my time.
2. I saved money. The money I saved I applied to credit cards and student loans - it felt nice... sometimes. I also started to put some money away for a small vacation this summer :)
3. I wasted money.
I spoke on this when I reached the halfway mark. (read here)- but I can't stop thinking of how much money I've really spent on clothes.
4. I need to clean out my closets.
No seriously!
5. I AM able to pack for a 2 week trip overseas without shopping.
I've NEVER been able to do this before - I would go on a shopping frenzy before I left because I thought that I didn't have enough. By restricting myself this time around, I saw that I had more than enough to get through the trip.
6. I got creative.
By not being able to just go and get what I just knew I needed at the moment, I was forced to look through my closet to complete my outfits. I found things - as in I didn't know I had them, and I started putting pieces together that I hadn't thought of. I got so into making new outfits that I started taking pictures so that I wouldn't forget. Now that the 90 days are over, I will be extra vigilant in making sure I stay creative with my clothes - why keep buying if I know there's a gem in my closet waiting to be worn and used creatively, it's fun!
7. I appreciate all that I have.
And going back to South Africa definitely drove the point home even further. "Nothing is by chance"... I stop shopping, I go to South Africa and once again see the disparity between the have's and the have nots- I come back stateside and go into a state of deep reflection as to just HOW MUCH I have in all aspects of my life.
I'm shocked that I am not itching to shop now that I can - I have a better assessment of what's really in my closet so when I think of purchasing an item I think of what I already have. Besides for certain events on the horizon, anything I buy at this point will strictly be a desire. I'm hesitant to impulsively jump back into my old habits; as this challenge has made me realize so much more than I thought it would. Thanks for going along for the ride, I appreciated your encouragement!
Fulani Earrings, $17, Gold Coast Africa
How about these for my 1st post-90 days purchase?
What did you all think of my challenge? Did you think I went nuts? Do you think it's something you could do?







4 comments:
Good job!!
Congratulations, LMC! We are so proud!
Love, A&P
Ek is bly om te hoor dat jy jouself het geniet in ons fantasties land :-) I'll translate ... I'm happy to hear that you enjoyed ourself in our wonderful country. This is my first visit to your blog and what a thrill to see mention of SA. I'm yet to hear of someone visiting here who does not fall in love with this land. I'll be visiting here more often ... and congrats on not spending for 90 days. Tot siens, geniet jou dag :-)
WOW! I commend you for sticking with it! I could imagine that it was NOT easy. And you've learned quite a few lessons. Good work!
Lexy (Beautylicious Fastionista)
http://lexythebeauty.blogspot.com/
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